thank you so much for asking!... a Windy City weekend
art, two terrific writing prompts, and a shrimp stew for the ages, all for you!







hey-ho!
People are nicer in the midwest. Every time I asked a server, a Lyft driver, a ticket taker, a bookseller, a barista, or a participant at the terrific Chicago Writers Association Conference, how their day was going they all said, “Thanks so much for asking.” I like moving through a city of civility!
I enjoyed crisp walks along the lake with my closest childhood pal who joined me, the Architecture Boat Tour, good food, Second City Comedy, the Art Institute and Museum of Contemporary Art. All in all, a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ trip.
At the Art Institute I took myself on a treasure hunt for odalisque paintings. (Odalisque: A female slave or concubine in the harem of the Turkish sultan. An artistic representation, often highly eroticized, of such a slave.) The memoir, I’M MOSTLY HERE TO ENJOY MYSELF, by Glynnis MacNicol, (which I talked about here yet I cannot really recommend because of her vague disdain for all woman except herself and her inner circle) started me on this odalisque jag. Basically I’m interested in the way these women subjects are arranged for consumption, by the art viewer, and by the people who harbor fantasies of sexual adventures.

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Picasso painted this one after WWII, when Europe was rebuilding:

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Max Beckman painted this of his wife, also in the odalisque style. Gosh, her face is in shadow and her breasts are highlighted. I might be pissed off if my partner chose boobs > face:

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What I love about this Manet painting is the wry look on her face, her complete engagement. She seems to be in full capacity, tired yet certain, daring you, the viewer, to take in her face and attitude rather her body.
No shrinking violet! Not served up on a plate! This I love.
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Finally, this painting by Suzane Valadon was not at the Art Institute, but is my favorite in the style of the odalisque. Valadon was a model for painters Pierre-Auguste Renoir, Edgar Degas, and Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec, from whom she learned and launched into her own painting career.

Notice she isn’t even looking at us. Emancipated from the male gaze indeed! No fucks to give! That is my wish for all of us.
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I went to a terrific talk by Rachel DeWoskin - Writing Wonder: Why Asking (Not Answering) Makes Writing Move and Matter.
In her talk DeWoskin emphasized the necessity to come to our writing with wonderings rather than answers.
Wonder is an engine, an opportunity.
Begin your writing with a question in mind and then lean in, write into the darkness. What question is your work trying to answer? What is the wonder❓❓❓ and the wonder 💫 💫 💫? What would it feel like to be _______________?
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Behind the dreaded paywall - 2 great prompts and an excellent shrimp stew ! Why a paywall? Each week I bring you books, food, prompts, and good will. It takes more than a minute to put together. If you’ve been considering upping your subscription, I’d love that for both of us. And, please do reach out if you need a bit of slack due to finances. I get it. xoN